Clubs can be a rewarding hunting ground for cute fellows. They frequently seem smart, you can check out their dancing and it is a convivial place to meet. However , clubs tend to be loud and dark of course, so do not expect to be enjoying a conversation on any meaningful level.
Remember the dress code â€" unless you're looking for a quick shag, or at a certain sort of themed club, either wear a mini skirt, or a lowâ€"cut top. Not both together- wretchedly the combo screams 'cheap ' louder than a market stall holder on a Sun. morning
Not like the local or the bar near work, men rarely go to clubs just to socialise with their buddies. Like you, they are probably on the lookout to meet someone, so subtlety isn't the name of the game here.
Like the bar, if you see somebody that you like, move over into their general direction and see if you can create a little eye contact.
If you get speaking and he asks that you dance, or merely begins to move in the general direction of the dance floor, go with the flow if you're still keen.
If you're a petite lady, it can be tricky to sustain any kind of conversation with a tall guy, in a noisy place. Shouting 'Sorry, what did you say? ' is not a sexy look, so use your tiny frame to your benefit and suggest that you sit down to talk further.
If you do meet someone you like and he asks for your number, my dating advice is to take his number and give him a call when, in the cold light of day, you've decided whether you probably did fancy him after all. Otherwise, give him your cellphone number instead of your home number and never give him your address or invite him back to your place on the 1st meeting. And definitely don't go back to his. Probabilities are he's a fair guy, but clubs are full of dodgy, seemingly OK types and your safety is paramount, however interesting he seems.
Remember the dress code â€" unless you're looking for a quick shag, or at a certain sort of themed club, either wear a mini skirt, or a lowâ€"cut top. Not both together- wretchedly the combo screams 'cheap ' louder than a market stall holder on a Sun. morning
Not like the local or the bar near work, men rarely go to clubs just to socialise with their buddies. Like you, they are probably on the lookout to meet someone, so subtlety isn't the name of the game here.
Like the bar, if you see somebody that you like, move over into their general direction and see if you can create a little eye contact.
If you get speaking and he asks that you dance, or merely begins to move in the general direction of the dance floor, go with the flow if you're still keen.
If you're a petite lady, it can be tricky to sustain any kind of conversation with a tall guy, in a noisy place. Shouting 'Sorry, what did you say? ' is not a sexy look, so use your tiny frame to your benefit and suggest that you sit down to talk further.
If you do meet someone you like and he asks for your number, my dating advice is to take his number and give him a call when, in the cold light of day, you've decided whether you probably did fancy him after all. Otherwise, give him your cellphone number instead of your home number and never give him your address or invite him back to your place on the 1st meeting. And definitely don't go back to his. Probabilities are he's a fair guy, but clubs are full of dodgy, seemingly OK types and your safety is paramount, however interesting he seems.
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